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My Current Plans
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•10k by 9/9/10

bored
Me
[info]viperboiz
i'm bored.. lol

Mixed Feeling
Me
[info]viperboiz
Oh well.. Currently having mixed feeling after hearing something. Now i wonder if I made a right decision. Although in this case the wrong decision for me would actually be a right decision from the public point of view. Oh well..

thoughts of mine
Me
[info]viperboiz
It's really interesting when people try to dig out certain information from you. They expect you to tell them what they wanna know but when they make use of the information that is given to them, they do not state that is given from an 'unknown' source but instead they would proudly state that you were the source. Getting you into trouble while helping them.

Another thought. Have you ever realized how often it is that we lie? The number one area where lies are said, is when you are supposed to be out of the house or somewhere which you and your friends have planned to meet. Instead of telling them the truth that you are still in the house or no where near the area which you are supposed to be at, you would simply say "I'm leaving the house now" or  "I'm reaching". But the truth is you are just afraid. But have you ever thought of what you are actually afraid of? The fact is there is nothing to be afraid of, and there isn't really anything to lose by telling the truth.

The two issues stated above might not be practiced by you or on you. But these are two common habits which are being practiced as you are reading this. Read It, Think About It And Make Some Difference.

polishing up a rusty blog
Me
[info]viperboiz

ok .. updating my blog that i left to rot for some time.. anyway.. been busy for the whole month of fasting.. had been working at the bazaar at geylang serai area.. had lots of fun.. many people from last year where not there.. but made lots of new friends.. Anyway, Selamat Hari Raya to you guys..

Had to update my blog cause i told someone i'd do it.. lol.. so here goes.. well yesterday morning i lost my handphone.. not too sure where i left it though.. was kinda sad.. lost all my contacts.. but anyway.. in return i got myself a new phone.. Nokia E63.. still trying to get used to the phone though.. haha. oh well that's all i guess.. for the next week i'm not too sure what i'll be doing.. got no plans as well.. new record for the movies i got 331 movies.. (:

to end it all a riddle you shall have...
 

"A farmer challenges an engineer, a physicist, and a mathematician to fence off the largest amount of area using the least amount of fence.

The engineer made his fence in a circle and said it was the most efficient.

The physicist made a long line and said that the length was infinite. Then he said that fencing half of the Earth was the best.

The mathematician laughed at the others and with his design, beat the others. What did he do?"
 


lovely
Me
[info]viperboiz
life is great.. haha.. 1 year suspension from taking a license.. got over it already.. just the 1.8k not so much.. decided to TRY to save 10k by 09/09/2010 by then i can take my license again.. gonna take my 2b and 3 the next time round.. haha.. at the same time.. Anyway, i've been watching movies and paying for it after a very long time of watching movies and not coming out a cent.. some people will know why.. that's all for now.. (:

LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST!
Me
[info]viperboiz
something interesting....

oh, and before you continue... I thrashed you zihao... hahahaha


> LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST!
>
> The Mayonnaise Jar
>
> When things in your life seem, almost too much to handle,
> When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
> Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.
>
> A professor stood before his philosophy class
> And had some items in front of him.
> When the class began, wordlessly,
> He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
> and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
>
> He then asked the students, if the jar was full.
> They agreed that it was.
>
> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
> them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
> The pebbles rolled into the open Areas between the golf balls.
>
> He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
>
> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
> Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
> He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a
> unanimous 'yes.'
>
> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
> poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively
> filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
>
> 'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
> 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
> The golf balls are the important things - family,
> children, health, Friends, and Favorite passions –
> Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, Your life
> would still be full.
>
> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and
> car.
>
> The sand is everything else --The small stuff.
>
> 'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,
> 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
> The same goes for life.
>
> If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
> You will never have room for the things that are important to you.
>
> So...
>
> Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
> Play With your children.
> Take time to get medical checkups.
> Take your partner out to dinner.
>
> There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.
>
> 'Take care of the golf balls first --
> The things that really matter.
> Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'
>
> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
> represented.
>
> The professor smiled.
> 'I'm glad you asked'.
>
> It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'

been interesting
Me
[info]viperboiz

Hello there everyone.. been some time since i updated... so let's see.. where should i begin?

ok maybe just from the not so many days before... going back to work in the outdoor line again.. things are starting to pick up again i think... met up with many of my friends whom i haven't seen for quite some time already... they are the ones who i'd say made me mature quite a bit during the time i hung out with them... i think it'll be happening again soon... i realised also what they told me before were very true... the group of friends that you are hanging out with might not be the ones you will be hanging out with in lets say 1 year or 2? or maybe even 6 months.. friends just come and go no matter how close you are with them... they will leave some they... may not totally be gone for good kind but as in you will drift apart a little at least... 

Another thing i realised is i have picked up drinking.. haha..  when people asked me to drink i was ' i don't drink' to now a 'when you wanna go' haha... really interesting... just 2 days back when i was in boat quay i met my cousins one who recently came out of prison... both of them are brothers though... met their friends as well.. really cool people.. i'd say that this week i had made many friends just over the weekend... met some girls as well..

speaking of girls... i think the next girl i intend to get, i won't go into it so quick.. i think i'd have to just make friends and have many friendly talks and getting to know her before getting into anything.. and even if i know she won't be the one i'd marry, i won't break up.. i'll just enjoy every moment of it.. the only risk is that after the break up.. we might not be friends.. haha.. many of my friends have talked to me on my views of having a girlfriend..  my thinking at that time was she has to be someone i'd marry.. many told me not to think that far.. haha maybe i have been thinking a little too far.. my reason or thinking 'too far' is because, wouldn't it be a 'waste of time' if you have been with her for like a few years and themn in the end a break up? like many other potential wives gone by.. haha.. oh well.. nvm.. the next one will be my gamble...

anyway back to the drinking part.. i hope i get my pay some where this week.. i wanna go drink again this weekend.. haha.. hopefully my cousins will be there.. then will have more company and more to drink as well.. funny thing about my cousins and i is that although we might not talk that much or see each other many times... but when we are together it's like as if we hang out everyday.. haha.. can't wait for the weekend to come....

oh well... today i was fed up... for the guys if you think ladies are hard to satisfy think again... parents are even harder to satisfy.. or maybe only or  me... my observation of about 3 years of my life are like that... being born in a christian family my parents obviously would want me to go to church don't worry that's not the point yet.. this is the start of the observations.. after secondary school i went to a private school while i was there i started going to a church which is pastor-ed by man who used to work in my family church.. now he has his own church.. so i started attending that church.. after my private dip finished... i became more active in the church.. volunteerig for lots of stuff there.. in christian terms its called serving.. so i go to church almost everyday to help out.. and my parents start nagging at me asking me why i have to go to church all the time.. weird right? coming from my parents who would have expected my to go to church.. so my dad keeps nagging at me to get a job.. supposedly make myself 'more useful'.. so soon after attending the church about a year i starting working as a kayaking instructor.. it's a JOB which earns MONEY... after working or some time i stopped going to church... and most of my days are at the campsite... now they nag at me again.. saying i treat my house as a hotel.. come back just to put my clothes to the wash for a day and next day i'm working.. now i already got a job they nag again.. ok.. so soon after that i went to other companies doing camps overseas so i'm like away for a week and back till the next camp... also nag.. when i have got no programs i'll be at home... so to them = i'm sleeping the whole day.. they are out in the day... i'm awake in the day when they come back i go to sleep.. so to them i sleep all the way.. after that things slowed down.. i have jobs once in awhile.. they nag again.. why can't find a proper job... the thing is i'm not into 'proper jobs'.. there's no thrill.. like what i believe in.. for jobs you have to drag yourself there.. if it's a career you'll go happily.. like my camp jobs.. so anyway.. things start to die down.. i found a job in a western food outlet.. stayed there for bout 2 weeks i left... couldn't take it... back to job once in a while again.. then i took another job worked for a month.. this time i made myself stay although i wanted to quit many a times.... i thought i'll get used to it.. so soon after i got used to the job i got into an accident lost a friend.. so i quit my job.. and now i'm back to once is a while jobs.. now what my parents see is i'm out all the time.. cause when they are back they see me sleeping.. the past 2 weeks are enough.. i come back in the morning i sleep till about 1 and then i wake up.. surf the net... when they arrive home by then i'd have been bored and go back to sleep till it's bout 8 or 9 then head out again.. to them they only see me sleeping.. so what does it mean to them?? i sleep the whole day.. today i slept till just after my mom left the house.. my dad was back but when he checked on my i was sleeping.. so anyway i woke up.. was in my room the whole time.. he didn't come in.. till it was rather dark.. he looked into the room i was sleeping and he startes nagging.. about be sleeping the whole day... the thing is i'm out when you guys are sleeping.. i'm home when you guys are awake.. still i'm at fault cause 'i'm out the whole day' the whole is about 9 till 3 or 4 in the morning? and the 9 is 9pm not am... why aren't they the ones who are out the whole day?? it's a typical thing.. the minorities are the one who are the problem.. not the majority.. same in singapore.. the banglas.. they are the minority they get picked on... after reading this you might thing no.. cause you may be one of those who help the minorities.. this is so stupid.. recently got nagged at again.. but this was my fault of course.. cause i overspent on my phone bill.. so now my mom is cancelling my line.. and i'll have to find my own hi card.. but i plan on getting a line.. cause i think i'll feel it more if i paid for it.. but i'll get a line when i got enough for the phone i want.. it's the samsung jet.. if i'm not wrong.. haha it's $398.. but i think i'll still get it... with the $48 per month plan.. seems find i guess... then i thought.. maybe it'll be good also if they cut my line.. they won't be able to reach me when i'm out.. only thing is when there's an emergency i won't know.. but oh well.. how often do emergencies occur.. maybe i'll take a hi card for about 2 months.. by then i MUST get my phone and line....

WOW just realised i've typed alot..  anyway.. that's all for now.. so long..

Here's a riddle for you my guest:

'Twas whispered in Heaven, 'twas muttered in Hell,
And echo caught faintly the sound as it fell;
On the confines of Earth, 'twas permitted to rest,
And in the depths of the ocean its presence confessed;
'Twill be found in the sphere when 'tis riven asunder,
Be seen in the lightning and heard in the thunder;
'Twas allotted to man with his earliest breath,
Attends him at birth and awaits him at death,
Presides o'er his happiness, honor and health,
Is the prop of his house and the end of his wealth.
In the heaps of the miser, 'tis hoarded with care,
But is sure to be lost on his prodigal heir;
It begins every hope, every wish it must bound;
With the husbandman toils, and with monarchs is crowned;
Without it the soldier and seaman may roam,
But woe to the wretch who expels it from home!
In the whispers of conscience its voice will be found,
Nor e'er in the whirlwind of passion be drowned;
'Twill soften the heart; but though deaf be the ear,
It will make him acutely and instantly hear.
Set in shade, let it rest like a delicate flower;
Ah! Breath on it softly, it dies in an hour.
 


My Apologies
Me
[info]viperboiz
I am truly sorry. Whether you want to accept my apology is up to you.. But i seriously hope you would.. So long my friend.. I'll be moving on..

Interesting
Me
[info]viperboiz
Interesting stuff i found on the net..

DORMITORY:
When you rearrange the letters:
DIRTY ROOM

PRESBYTERIAN:
When you rearrange the letters:
BEST IN PRAYER

ASTRONOMER:
When you rearrange the letters:
MOON STARER

DESPERATION:
When you rearrange the letters:
A ROPE ENDS IT

THE EYES:
When you rearrange the letters:
THEY SEE

GEORGE BUSH:
When you rearrange the letters:
HE BUGS GORE

GAUTENG:
When you rearrange the letters:
GET A GUN

THE MORSE CODE:
When you rearrange the letters:
HERE COME DOTS

SLOT MACHINES:
When you rearrange the letters:
CASH LOST IN ME

ANIMOSITY:
When you rearrange the letters:
IS NO AMITY

ELECTION RESULTS:
When you rearrange the letters:
LIES - LET'S RECOUNT

SNOOZE ALARMS:
When you rearrange the letters:
ALAS! NO MORE Z 'S

A DECIMAL POINT:
When you rearrange the letters:
IM A DOT IN PLACE

THE EARTHQUAKES:
When you rearrange the letters:
THAT QUEER SHAKE

ELEVEN PLUS TWO:
When you rearrange the letters:
TWELVE PLUS ONE

A Mother In Law
When you rearrange the letters:
A Woman Hitler
 

Life
Me
[info]viperboiz
Haven't updated in awhile. Well, I'm not really the kind who would post the details of everything that I've done so far. So one line should sum it all up, maybe two..

Life has been great for the past few weeks with its ups and downs. Looking forward for more ups and less downs.


See You Guys Around..

Friends Are Like Money
Me
[info]viperboiz
Friends are like money, they come and go.

Money is not everything, but without money you are nothing.

But not the same goes for friends.

Friends are not everything, but with without friends you are a stupid anti-social fool.

A Text Message That Changes The Whole Mindset
Me
[info]viperboiz
I finally realized why my sis had recently been asking me to go back home early instead of hanging out late at night till the wee hours of the morning. Was out with the usual gang just now.. was playing on the computer , and halfway through my mom text me a message asking me when I'll be coming back.. Then I read one of the messages she sent me and it really broke my heart.. And that message really made me think about what I'm doing... That's when i understood why my sis has been doing the calling and messaging asking me to go back early. Was pondering just now while washing the balcony. Maybe it's time i really did something with my life and change for the better... Adding a new section on the side bar real soon... My Plans... And I must complete all those ASAP... And this time it's really ASAP.. I think it's time for my mom to relax and just enjoy... But there are just so much stuff going through my mind that i got to get sorted out first.. I pray that my God will give me the strength to pull through all these and help me succeed in my plans... Amen...

See You Guys Around..

Interesting start
Me
[info]viperboiz
Oh well... I've been coming back late for the past few days, and It gets my mom upset.. But i Know She's just worried that I might get into any mishap outside.. Also Because I haven't been spending time with my family... Hopefully I Somehow become more responsible and automatically go back home early.. Intended to let my mom see her today.. But in the end i chose to go out.. And my mom was thinking that i'm hiding something from her.. She asked me: "She is a Malay is it?"  lol.. what a question to ask.. I went like no... haha she's Chinese... I don't look short term in this kind of relationships.. what i look for is someone whom most likely would be my wife in the future.. But i think my mom doesn't think that way about me finding a girlfriend... lol... Haven't really told her before what i am looking for as well.. That's the reason why i want her to meet my family... anyway, was reading my girlfriend's blog and I feel rather confident and sure of this decision that i made.. Oh well... Time to think properly and plan well... I pray that God will bless my relationship.. See You Guys Around..

wonderful day
Me
[info]viperboiz
what a wonderful day... Found the girlfriend already but not in the right week.. haha... but oh well.... i think i will bring her home to see my mom soon... hopefully things work out... 30/06/2009... Got to put this date down in my calender already

Random Thoughts
Me
[info]viperboiz
Just read my previous entry, and i realised that there were a few grammar and spelling errors. oh well... Anyway, was listening to the radio while in Qi Sheng's car earlier just now.. what i heard was Very Interesting.. This week is INTERNATIONAL FIND A GIRLFRIEND WEEK.. LOL.. I wonder who i have in mind.. lol.. I WONDER... lol have fun people.. See you guys soon..

Can't Wait
Me
[info]viperboiz
I Can't Wait For Tonight.. It'll What I Plan For As A Enjoyable Night. But Still Unknown To Me Is How To Result Would Be Like.. Kinda Still In A Dilemma On Some Stuff I Found Out. Oh Well If It All Goes Well Who Cares? I'm Willing To Put It Aside. I Guess Only A Bro Of Mine Would Understand Everything Here. Bye The Way.. Good Morning To All You People Reading This. See You Guys Soon..

Interesting Night Out
Me
[info]viperboiz
It Was An Interesting Night Out Yesterday. Many Scenes Of Violence Was Seen. Over What We'd Call Petty Stuff. But It Was A Good Break From Whatever That Had Happened. Helping Us To Relax A Little. And Best Of All I Met Someone There. Though Things Are Going Slow, I Just Hope Things Will Work Out. We Should Really Go Out Again Some Time Soon. Just To A Place With A Much Different Atmosphere. That Will Be much Better.
Signing Out,
Gideon

Stop Blaming, Start Thanking.
Me
[info]viperboiz
 Something To Ponder On...

  Is It Not Interesting That We Can Be Praising Someone This Minute And Just Because Something Goes Wrong, We Are Blaming The Person Whom We Were Praising The Minute Before? This Happens Almost Everywhere, Everyday Of Our Lives. Be It Towards Our Family, Friends, Teachers, Boss, Employees And Worst Of All Our Own Creator, God. We Are Such Amazing Creatures. We Would Not Even Give Some Money To The Poor And Homeless Who Needs Our Help. But We Start Blaming Everyone That We Can When We Don't Get What We WANT. Please Take Note Of The Word WANT. We Always Say We Want This We Want That, But What Is It That We Really Need? If You To Think Of It Just By Being Able To Read This We Already Have What We Really Need. A Shelter, Some Food. And The Computer That You Are Using To Read This Is A Bonus Already. So Why Can't We Stop Blaming, Start Thanking? I Know It's Kind Of Difficult Or Weird For Some Of Us. But I Think Maybe it's Time We Started To Do Just That. And Perhaps The World Won't Be Such A Bad Place After All.


Prefect Love is....
Slow to Suspect...Quick to Trust
Slow to Condemn...Quick to justify
Slow to Offend...Quick to Defend
Slow to Expose...Quick to Shield
Slow to Reprimand...Quick to Praise
Slow to Demand...Quick to give
Slow to Provoke...Quick to Please
Slow to Hinder...Quick to Help
Slow to Anger...Quick to Forgive
Slow to Speak...Quick to Listen


Food For Your Thoughts.

A Recent Lost.
Me
[info]viperboiz
     Recently, I Lost A Friend. We Were What I Would Consider Close Friends. Not The Kind That Have Been Close For Years. We Started Meeting Up Again Around 3-4 Months Ago, Years After Our Secondary School. Our Lives Crossed Paths Again Due To One Big Common Interest That A Number Of Us Shared, Which Was The Motorbike. It Was Also The Cause Of The Lost Of This Great Friend Of Mine Whom I Had Started To Regard As A Brother Of Mine.

   The Day He Left For A Better Place, We Were All Shocked. None Of Us Thought He Would Leave So Suddenly. Many Of Us Who Knew About The Incident Thought He Would Not Be Leaving Any Time Soon. But We Were Snapped Back To Reality When A Man In A Green Surgical Gown Broke The News To Us, Many Who Were There Broke Down. Actually Almost All Broke Down, All But me. I Was In A State Of Confusion. I Even Had This Thought, 'What Am I Supposed To Feel Emotionally?' Then I Left The Room. Moving Out Of The Building I Started To Break Down.
 
   Now I Was Afraid, I Was Afraid That They Would All Blame It On Me. Even Till Now, I Do Not Know If A Particular Brother Of Mine Blames Me For The Incident. At That Point Of Time All I Could Do Was To Just Keep Lighting Up One Stick After Another. Then It was Time To See Him Again. There His Outer-shell Was, Lying Down On The Bed. I Believe At That Time He Had Already Left For A Better Place And Had Only Left Behind His Outer-shell For Us To Feel His Presence As We Needed Time To Adjust Ourselves To Some New Changes In Our Lives.

   Now I Strongly And Truly Believe That He Is In A Place Much Better Than This Place We Are Left On.


The End.


  


I Pray That You Are With The Holy God In Heaven, Enjoying Yourself. You Will Always Be Remembered By Us.
  
  Yours Sincerely,
    Gideon Oi.





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